So I'm settling into the new house okay, though I am learning quickly that the best laid plans change once the first arrow leaves the bow... so to speak. It still doesn't feel like I own a home, though it's been more than a month since closing. First mortgage payment is due 11/1 which is not too terribly far away. Should have no problems with that. I got well more than my share of the bills, but....

It looks like I have a lot of stuff to buy: A new dresser, nightstand, bookcase as my existing furniture just wont work in my new room.

We left a lot of stuff behind as it was crap and in need of replacing, but couches and tables are *not* cheep! My credit is almost exhausted, and actual monies are becoming quite scarce.

I think we need to take a step back and prioritize things. I can do without some of the niceties until the financial situation settles out a bit.